Friday, March 7, 2008

Wrap Up

Well, this will be the last post as we're about to hit the hay so that we can get up at 4:00 AM. It has been a great week getting to experience some of the Philippines with Ricky, but I can tell you that he is ready to come home, as are Steph and I. He is really excited. Words can't express just how much we appreciate all of the prayers and comments during the week. You've all been a real blessing; however, don't stop praying yet as we have a long flight tomorrow and must still get through customs. We're not expecting any problems but that doesn't mean there won't be. The biggest question mark is Ricky's visa and the "lung problem" statement. Again, your continued prayers are coveted.

Today was real low key. Had a late breakfast (no dried fish today), after which I answered some work e-mail while Steph and Ricky played battle. We then went to the mall and bought a few things, all the while having to redirect Ricky from the game room. We found a couple of pairs of pants and shirts for him to try on, so I took him to the change room. I kid you not, there were 4 women associates in there helping him out; as in, one was in the change room with him. I'm sure he was too embarrassed to say he didn't need the help, but I just had to laugh. Great service in the Philippines.

After much waiting we made it to the Time Zone which has got to be the largest arcade I've ever seen. Absolutely huge. It even had karaoke (sp?) rooms, which were full of teenage girls laughing their heads off while each other sang. Really fun to watch. Some of the games posed a problem as the text was in something other than English, which apparently Ricky could not read. We basically had to muddle through a few games but he still had fun. I also observed another universal truth: Guys don't like to lose to their girlfriends (spouses, etc.). I saw one poor guy get absolutely drilled in the basketball toss multiple times and he refused to give up. Never did win though. Personally, I don't have a problem with that but I know that many guys do. :) At the end of all that Ricky said exactly what I was feeling...."my legs hurt". Apparently the mall has the same effects on him as it does me. We must be related.

We ate lunch in the food court (Burger King does have the "Whopper" here) and then went back to the hotel for a while. Ricky and I then went to see 10,000 BC which probably made no sense to him, given the language issues and sub-titles, but the visuals were okay. He about froze to death though and sat in my lap for about half the movie. Good thing he's not too big.

Well, I am up next for the shower but before I sign off Steph asked me to make sure Stacie will be in charge of pictures and video at the airport. We look forward to being back on American soil and in our own KING size bed!

See you soon,
Tanner

Thursday, March 6, 2008

Austin & Maddie

Just wanted to say "good afternoon". We miss you both very much. As well as this trip has gone, it could have only been made better by having the two of you here with us. Perhaps we will all come together one day. Finish out the week strong and have a great time with your friends tomorrow. I'm looking forward to my hugs on Saturday. Dad

Final Day

Hello Everyone,

It's our last day here and I am sooo ready to come home! It was actually the one morning we did not have to get up early and you guessed it, Ricky woke up at 6:15 a.m. I have had to wake him each previous morning. It may have something to do with the fact the we are going to the mall today and he will be able to play video games. We mentioned in an earlier blog about the huge number of people in the malls. Che shared that the malls are always crowded, especially in the summer (end of March - June) because they are air conditioned. Glorietta is the name of the mall across from us and I don't think that is a mistake either. God was so evident on our Glorietta vacations in New Mexico and particularly on the Mission Week. All people groups are His and He chose to share Ricky with us.

Austin and Madison, I hope you guys are hanging in there. I can't wait to see the two of you! One more day of school and I hope it is a Happy Friday! I wonder if Coacoa misses us and Oddie. I know Oddie misses Coacoa. Madison, I think you mentioned you have an ELA test tomorrow. Be sure to read over your notes. Tell the Venables hello and have fun playing with Kathryn and Jacob. Austin, good luck with try-outs and tell Mrs. Binns hello. Don't forget to help out there as she hasn't been feeling very well.

Mom and Dad, I bet you are ready to revert back to just being grandparents instead of parents!! Hopefully, you will rest up on Friday, enjoying the break before meeting us at the airport Saturday night.

Margaret and Walter, I could not help but wonder what Ricky will choose to eat when he joins all of you at Piccadilly.

Maw-maw Peggy, we hope your work week has gone well and will send pictures via the computer once we are home.

Jen, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers more often than you know. I wonder how you are feeling?

Stevie, you are so wise for your young years and I love you. Tell your brother we are praying that he feels better soon and that we love him too.

Everyone, we can't begin to tell all of you how much your entries have encouraged us during our stay. Barbara, thanks so much for telling us how to do this blog. We will forever cherish the correspondence and I know Ricky will one day cherish it as well. We have loved having you with us in Manila, Philippines!!!

Praising God for all of You,
Steph

Universal Truth (part deux)

Another universal truth:
- Women and snakes don't mix (I base this, not on any direct observation of a snake, but by the reaction of the women on the tour bus when the guide simply mentioned the cobras and the pythons).

Some additional details about the tour today:
- Just to the north of Corrigedor is the Bata'an Peninsula, site of the infamous Bata'an Death March. Don't know how the Japanese tourists qualify that whole PR fiasco.
- To the south of Corrigedor stood a small island that the Americans turned into a permanent battleship. They literally loped off the top of the island, covered it in concrete, and established two gun turrets on it. It took 9 years to build and is still there today (we could see it from a distance). Good 'ol American ingenuity.
- The museum contains the original US flag that flew over Corrigedor. It only contained 45 stars at that time. Still makes this American swell with pride.
- General McArthur is definitely revered by the Filipinos. I didn't realize he had such ties to what was then a commonwealth. His famous "I shall return" statement, which he said when he left Corrigedor in the face of the Japanese attack in '42 (over his objections), was ultimately fulfilled when we took it back in '45. Not quite as intimidating as Arnold's "I'll be back" in the Terminator, but inspiring nonetheless. McArthur attended the raising of the colors in 1945 on the original Spanish flag pole, which survived all of the bombing. This flagpole was a mast from a Spanish galleon (it looks like it ought to have a sail on it).

Just a few factoids that might help the next time you play Trivial Pursuit.

One last thing (yeah right), I've noticed that while there are many restaraunts here common to the US, most have their own local twist. For instance, tonight we ate at Pizza Hut and the pizza had almost no tomato sauce on it. As in I'm not sure there was any at all. Was still good though.

Earthquake, Pirates, Traffic

A few of you wrote about the earthquake that hit here the Saturday before we arrived. We were unaware of it until you guys wrote us. Our biggest danger has been traveling by car. I just thought I took my life into my own hands when trying to cross airline at Swamp Road! Of course, the armed guards on the boat today were there to protect us from pirates. Thankfully, all was quiet on the waters and we safely docked at the island. Upon first impressions of our arrival, I told Tanner I felt like we were on "Lost".

Blessings,
Steph

Extra Details

Good Morning All,

It is 9:00p.m. here and I will be hitting the sack very shortly. Tanner has updated the blog but forgot to mention a few details. On Corrigedor Island I asked our tour guide what kind of animals inhabited the island and his response was monkeys, deer, pythons, and cobras! Thankfully, the only creature we saw was a monkey crossing the road, much to Ricky's delight!
By the way Austin, during our tour there was an area with steps and ramps and Ricky mentioned that you would like to skate there. Some young men from California laughed and agreed that skating there would be really cool.

As Tanner mentioned, Ricky did eat dried fish this morning and even tried to get me to eat some. I have tried many things that he has offered, but refused the fish. Both the look and the smell made it extremely unappealing. Ricky eats rice at every meal as well as mango in some fashion, (fresh, juice, smoothie etc).

Mimi and Pawpaw Walter, Ricky asked about Pelize instead of Felize and we couldn't quite get him to distinguish the "f" sound from the "p" sound. We thought it was cute.

Ricky and I have played Battle and of course he has won both times! He talked about all of us playing while we were in Dallas. I'm sure I'll have a chance to redeem myself on the flight home.

Madison, there was a mural on the wall at Pizza Hut and there was a young girl painted on it. Ricky pointed to the girl and said, " Madison". Like you, Ricky also took all of my whip cream off my frappacino and he likes butter. I can't wait until we all get to reunite at the airport on Saturday. Until then, you and Austin continue to be good and do your best. Dad and I miss you both so much. We will call again before bedtime on Thursday night your time (Friday morning our time).

Love you,
Mom

P.S. Someone just knocked on our door to ask if I needed "Turn down Service". When I looked confused, he explained that he would turn down my bed covers! Obviously, we are not roughing it!

Fish & Chips

Forgot to share an interesting breakfast food that Ricky had this morning. Basically, we've been enjoying a really nice breakfast buffet complete with an omelete "bar" and the standard American fare (scrambled eggs, bacon, pancakes, etc.). Lots of fresh fruit and pastries. And then there is the local food, most of which I cannot even describe. Suffice it to say we stuck with the fruit and omeletes. At any rate, one of the more "special" foods is what I would call dried fish. They're basically whole fish (I presume minus the entrails) about 3 times the size of a sardine, but dried like a fish chip. Steph was helping serve Ricky this morning and he wanted a couple of them. Thought she was gonna gag right there on the spot. Nothing like having your breakfast stare back at you! I know Ricky likes fish and fishing, but this might be taking it too far. Ha. I may have to try one tomorrow (Jo - would you like me to bring one home for you?).
Maybe they'll have monkey brains tomorrow.
T

Some Gave All

Woke up early for a boat ride to Corregidor Island, which was a significant site for WWII. 1 1/4 hour boat ride was uneventful but I think Ricky really enjoyed it. He and I went outside where he could get a good view, but it was fairly rough so we did catch some spray. Steph stayed inside due to the Dramamine she took. The boat had a really good video presentation on the history of the island as well as a good summary of the Pacific campaign during WWII, particularly in regards to the Philippines. The WWII theme went really well with the armed guards that were onboard. I didn't ask why but presume it's for pirates in the area.

At any rate the video really set the stage for what we were to see on the island. Basically, Corregidor is a remnant of what was once the top of a volcano at the opening to Manila Bay. This island, as well as 3 others, were significant because they provided a very effective guard to the entrance of the bay. Basically, whoever controlled the bay controlled the Philippines. To summarize the WWII campaign: 1) Americans control Corregidor and the Philippines; 2) Japanese take Philippines and Corregidor; 3) Americans take back Corregidor and the Philippines. Game over. Actually there was more to it than that of course but you get the picture.

Once on the island the guests were divided up on 8 different tour buses (open sided). There was a group of Japanese tourists which were all put on one bus. I presumed it was because they needed a Japanese interpreter; however, our tour guide told us that they always separate the Japanese as they have their own perspective on the war, which obviously differs from ours. We consider our American and Filipino troops as heroes, and they feel the same about their soldiers. At any rate our tour guide was great and provided lots of details (I like history so I thought he was great; not so sure about Ricky). Ricky sat in my lap the whole time we were riding, although we did get to walk through many of the sites.

The island was very picturesque with many of the original gun batteries, barracks, tunnels, and other buildings present, albeit with many more holes than the original construction. According to our guide, Corregidor had more ordinance dropped on it per square foot than any other location in the war. We observed quite a few bomb craters. The island contained what is called the Mile Long Barricks, which were actually only about 1/3 mile long ("only") but due to the 3 story construction it was said that soldiers would run a mile inside by running all 3 stories; hence the name. It had an inside pool which is still present. The island also contains the Manilta Tunnel which housed a 1000 bed hospital. We walked through the tunnel which I think Ricky really enjoyed. There is also a war museum and war memorial, which has an eternal flame and domed altar. The dome has a hole in the top through which the sun perfectly strikes the round altar underneath precisely at noon only on May 6, the date on which the U.S. surrendered Corregidor in 1942. Really cool to think about.

Bottom line is that as we walked through these ruins it felt like walking through sacred ground. To think of the brave men and women that lived and died there in order to ensure the freedom of our countries is really inspiring to me; however, I wonder how others feel about this ultimate sacrifice. I'm sure there are a variety of responses; some that are changed forever, some that acknowledge the sacrifice but don't let it impact them, while there are others that just don't care. I see many similarities in how people respond to Christ's sacrifice. Some don't care, some know what He did but don't let it impact them, while others are changed forever. And of course there are those that have never heard. How have you responded to the One that gave all for all?

Enough history. I'm going to work out then we'll be going to get something to eat. Tomorrow is shopping at the mall and hanging out at the pool. Thanks again for the prayers.

T

Wednesday, March 5, 2008

Austin

Austin,
Why are you bummed about try-outs. Just do your best if you choose to try out. That's all you are ever asked to do. Grannie can call Matthew's mom and let her know that she or Paw-paw can bring you over a little later than planned. Whatever you choose to do, know that you are awesome, loved, and missed. Mr. Earl will forgive you as he knows there is a lot going on right now. Remember it is "Hump Day" and you are over the hump!!
Love you lots,Mom

Up and At 'Em

Got up early again this AM, not by my own choice of course but just can't seem to sleep past 5:00. Oh well, we need to get up early as we have a 7:00 AM taxi to our tourist location. We are taking a boat to the Corrigedor (sp?) Island, which was a US base of operations for Gen. McAuthur during WWII. Will have lunch on the boat and spend the day on the island. Should be something Ricky has never seen, but I guess that's not too unusual.

I was sitting here reading everyone's comments in the dark and Steph came in to read over my shoulder. For a moment I thought the roof was leaking until I realized it was her tears dropping on me. Women! Just kidding. We're both very thankful for all of the "Tell Ricky we love him" and "give him a hug for me" comments. Poor boy's going to be hugged out before we even get home. "You ain't seen nothing yet" is a difficult translation when trying to explain to him that he will be receive many more hugs when we arrive.

Steph is now waking him up by singing "Arise and Shine". Typical young boy, he's waking slowly but that won't last long. Oh well, I've got to get ready so we can get to breakfast. Hope everyone has a great day.

T

Austin & Maddie

Just wanted to say that I love you and that I hope you have a great day. We miss both of you greatly and are looking forward to seeing you on Saturday night. Dad

Marvelous Massage

Good Evening,

I just returned from an hour massage that was wonderful. Twenty-six hour flights have a tendency to cause muscles to hurt that you didn't know you had. An hour massage is only $38 so I couldn't resist and indulged in the treat!

After touring today, we went down to the pool. It is surrounded by lush vegetation, relaxing chairs, and nice comfy towels. The only problem was the water was very cold and the wind could almost blow you over. Of course this was not a problem for me because everyone knows I did not get in the pool. However, my wonderful husband did swim with Ricky, after much coaxing. Luckily, the swim was short-lived as both were cold.

The meeting at ICAB went very well. They had a sign hanging that welcomed us each, by name. Everyone was very friendly as we sat around and visited. I was waiting to be called back for questioning, but instead they hugged us each and wished us well, thanking us for parenting Ricky. It truly was just a formality and now all of Ricky's paperwork is in our possession! We were also given his chest x-rays and shown the spots on his lungs. We will definitely check him out thoroughly when we get home. We were even told that we may be stopped by the USA, taken to a private room and made to swear that we will have a doctor check Ricky out. I am very glad that we were given the heads-up so that there weren't any unwanted surprises. I thank God for Ricky and the many who helped us get him and I am relieved that the process here is complete.

One of the things I noticed while here is that the odors are very different. I am sure that part of it is due the pollution but even the newspaper has a distinct smell. Every restaurant has unusual smells (dried fish with the heads still on) and even the soap and lotions smell different. I feel like I am pregnant again because my sense of smell is working overtime. I had to fight off nausea more than once.

Speaking of nausea, the stop and go of the car didn't help as I closed my eyes each time we nearly hit someone. Che shared that her brother was recently given a ticket because his car horn was too loud. If you don't have a working horn you can receive a ticket as well. I don't think I would ever drive if I lived here. Our driver, Jarrell, was very safe and pleasant to be with each day and was well worth the cost.

The poverty seemed to be more evident today. So many children running through the streets alone and Che shared that many are hit by cars. I saw one mother picking fleas from her daughter's hair and my heart continued to break. I again thanked God that Ricky was one of the lucky ones who was taken to an orphanage. There were many lean-to shelters (cardboard, tin, scraps of wood), some even made in the middle of the road. More surprising was that these lean-to shelters were more than one story high. Little to no running water or electricity was seen and most cooked on a small pit outside their home. We have yet to see homes of the upper class but there were some high rise town homes and condos. I thought it was interesting that Che mentioned that she would not go into one particular mall because it was built too quickly and she didn't trust the construction. Tanner asked if this was generally a problem and she replied that it was. I feel certain that many of the lean-to homes would crumble with the slightest of wind. There has been much learned by this experience and I know we will be different people because of it.

Well it is time to sign off as Ricky just climbed into my lap for a hug. We are hungry!


Missing everyone,
Steph

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

Meandering Manila

Got a good tour of "old" Manila today, which is the walled portion of the city that was constructed by the Spanish in the 1500's. Walls are still intact and guarded by personnel dressed in Spanish-styled outfits; however, I don't think the assault shotguns are from the period.

We visited Fort Santiago which was constructed by the Spanish, used by the US in WWI and II, as well as by the Japanese in WWII. Several hundred American and Filipino POW's were found dead there after the US took back Manila. It was also the location where Jose Rizal, a Filipino hero, was imprisoned prior to his execution by the Spanish. Very interesting individual...a doctor who worked to free the Philippines from their colonialization. Excellent writer, with several works shown in a memorial to him. Only 5' 2" but obviously a giant of a man. I'm not sure that Ricky quite appreciated the history as his only comment was "it's a long walk".

We also visited a beautiful Catholic cathedral built (and rebuilt) by the Spanish. It was originally constructed in 1861, partially destroyed by fire in 1862, and then destroyed by an earthquake in 1863. Tough 3 years. At any rate, it's still an active church and really beyond words to describe. We also drove around several other sites but did not get out. Took lots of pictures so we'll share when we get home.

In driving around it came to mind that there are certain universal truths that seem to apply regardless of the location:
- Boys will be boys (as specifically applied to Ricky)
- Black socks with sandles just don't work
- Bad drivers are everywhere
- Corruption in politics
- Laughter and a smile will bridge any communication barrier
- Abject poverty is a blight on the human soul
- People need the Lord.

Saw two messages today worth sharing: 1) Large billboard that read "Jesus alone saves"; and 2) Handpainted sign on a Jeepney taxi that said "God is love". I guess there is truth in advertising after all.

T

Waking Moments

Being up at the wee hours of the morning gives one time to reflect a little. As a result I was thinking about our flight over and how we never left the daylight all of the way to Japan. It dawned on me that must be what heaven will be like....never leaving the light of Him that saved me. How awesome is that? Psalm 27:1 says "The Lord is my light and my salvation, whom should I fear?" and John 8:12 says "I am the light of the world. Anyone who follows me will never walk (or fly) in the darkness but will have the light of life". Okay, so the "or fly" was from me, but I guess you get the point. Not only will we never walk in darkness, but have you ever considered just how easy God has made this for us....just through the simple act of following His Son. That tells me right there that it's not about our religion or the good things that we do (or don't do), but by our faith in Jesus Christ. Thank goodness because I know that I could never measure up to what God deserves from me, which is exactly why he sent His Son. The perfect sacrifice for imperfect humans.

T

Soccer Game

Maddie - I forgot to ask about the soccer game. How did we do?

Dad

Richard

Casey had asked why Ricky's friend Richard is not able to leave yet. It is not a case of his testing positive for TB. Unfortunately some of the paperwork from his adoptive parents was lost by one of the agencies, so they're having to resubmit it. Nothing like government bumbling to delay things. They're hopeful that it will take no more than 2 months to get it through, but there are no guarantees. We know that our God can remove such barriers so pray that he does quickly, so Richard can be reunited with his parents.

The Nintendo DS is a big hit, so thanks to those that made that happen. I also showed him the Ipod for the first time and he's already figured out that he can put the bigger earphones on it and is listening to the music that Darra and Stacie loaded on it while he plays Nintendo. Thanks again to all.

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Connie or Stacie - Would one of you call my mom and make sure she knows how to access the blog. I would greatly appreciate it. Her number is 972-272-7151.

Slept pretty well last night, except Ricky woke me up around 10:30 with his snoring. In my stupor I tried to get him to roll over, but to no avail. I finally bumped my way around the room in the dark and found my alarm clock with the noise maker. Rain never sounded so good. We're now waiting on Che to go to the ICAB and then will spend some time touring Manila with Gerald, the kamikazi driver.
Hi All,

I've only got a minute but I had to share briefly. At breakfast Ricky asked how many more days before we go home. He is counting down! We also explained that many friends and family will be at the airport to greet us. I named his grandparents, Austin, Madison, Cameron, Hayes, Tia Stacie and he said, "And Darra"! Thought you would like that brother-in-law.

Austin, Ricky picked up my phone and asked, "Where is my picture?" I told him it was on your phone and he said, "Yes".

We also walked out to the pool and it is beautiful. We hope to get to relax there soon.
Good Morning All,

Our Inter Country Adoption Board meeting has been moved from tomorrow to this morning at 9:00 a.m. (Wed.) We are all getting ready for the day and will be happy when the meeting is over. Tanner and I will be questioned and then Ricky's Visa and passport will be given to us!!!

Due to Ricky's cold, he snored but slept soundly. His pajamas fit perfectly and the blanket from home kept him warm. We were thankful for our alarm clock that makes the rain sound so we could sleep, too. We are waking up very early 4:30a.m. and so Tanner decided to go ahead and work out. When Ricky woke up, he asked, Where is Daddy Tanner? He thinks Tanner's muscles are very big and Mamma's are small - very smart!

In going through Ricky's backpack, my heart was touched as he had kept every letter and picture we had sent as well as used the calendar to mark the days until we arrived here. He drew many pictures of his new family including the dogs. There ofcourse, is a picture of all of us on a boat catching fish!

Ricky says to tell everyone in America hello and thanks for his Nintendo! He is ready to fly on the big airplane and every time he sees and airplane he points it out to me.

The Philippines are very beautiful in areas and filled with poverty in others. It is very hard to see so many unattended children in the streets fending for themselves. There seems to be just two classes, the upper class and the lower class. However, the people continue to be friendly and helpful and thankful that we are helping Ricky have a better life. Many tell us thank you and then tell Ricky not to forget the Philippines.

Well, I am running out of time so I'll sign off for now and report back after our ICAB meeting.

In His grip,
Steph

Mall or Bust

Well that was a new shopping experience. I've never seen so many people in a mall; not even at Christmas. Given that we were two out of only 5 caucasians seen the whole time, I'm sure we got some strange looks, particularly towing Ricky around. He and I made a jaunt over to the childrens section to find some long PJ's and ended up with a Plastic Man outfit, which I promptly left on the counter at McDonalds. When I went back to ask if anyone had left a bag, the employee said, "Yes, a costume". Speaking of Mickey D's, it's interesting how different the menu is over here...no Big Mac or Quarter Pounder; rather a hamburger with some strange orange sauce and chicken on the bone with rice. Guess which one Ricky picked? We let Ricky play some games and I've got to assume that he will like hunting, given how well he shot those aliens. Of course he may not like the cold too much. Two more things about the mall: 1) They have more employees per customer than anyplace I've ever been. And all very helpful and polite; 2) Armed guards screen you when you enter. Nothing like a good frisking before you go shopping (just kidding).

Ricky just walked out of the bathroom with his new PJ's on. I didn't do too bad. He's on the phone with Maddie and Austin, and grinning from ear-to-ear.

It's time to try to catch up on some sleep, so I'll repost in the AM.
Hi All,

Just wanted to add to Tanner's summary of the day. Ricky is calling us Mom and Dad and it is music to our ears!!!

Tell Boo, I am more tired than ever, but a very happy tired.

Pray for Ricky as he has a slight cold. We will pick up some medicine in a few minutes and hopefully that will help.

Going to the mall,
Steph

Mack??????????????

Did anyone get the name on that truck that ran over me? Wow, 2 hours later and I still feel "dead". Good nap though. Ricky played his Nintendo DS very quietly or perhaps I was just too tired to notice. He's got some acclimitization to do though, as he was fairly cold in the hotel room. Wait till he gets home and we have a cold front come through. Going shopping now.

Monday, March 3, 2008

Open Arms

It is 3:30 here and we've just returned to the hotel with Ricky. Both of us are running on empty and will take a brief nap to recuperate; however, here is a summary of the day:

Well, Che picked us up around 9:45 Am and we took the hotel taxi to the Parenting Foundation. Traffic in Manila is much like that in Mexico City....every driver for his or herself. Lanes, lights and Stop signs are all just suggestions; however, I did not see one wreck. Probably not quite as hectic as Mexico City but close. Taxis everywhere, in the form of sidecars on motorcycles, Jeepneys (oversized Jeep-like vehicles) and every other form under the sun. Our driver was great and stayed with us all day.

Got to the Foundation at 10:30 and what a joyful reunion. Praise God! Our little man was all smiles, a little shy at first but I think mainly because there were several other adults and children there. The social workers there informed us that Ricky woke up at 3:30 AM because he was excited and couldn't sleep. We met his foster mother, Lilian, who has 5 other foster kids, and Ricky's good friend Richard. We got to see some of his schoolwork and pictures that he drew for us, but mainly just sat and visited. Leaving was sad as Richard took it pretty hard; pray that his adoptive parents are cleared to come get him soon.

We left the foundation and took a ride to Ricky's school. Classes were out today but there were a number of kids there taking some type of standardized test. Apparently a 6' 3" white man is a novelty at the school as I seemed to draw quite a bit of attention. Friendly but shy smiles from beautiful children. The school grounds were modest, as expected, with several "urban gardening" plots. We went to Ricky's class and took some pictures, as well as got to see his work. We also met the principle who thanked us for taking Ricky in. No thanks needed of course.

We then proceeded to a local mall for lunch, where we dined on Filipino food. My first time, but not a bad experience. Some similarities to Chinese on some dishes, but there were definitely some different items. Allien from the Foundation joined us and she informed me that Ricky had written Lillian a letter apologizing for when he had misbehaved while living with her. Apparently a pretty sweet letter that brought her to tears. I know how quickly we became attached to Ricky in 3 weeks, so I'm sure the last 7 months will make it difficult for her to see him leave. We thank God for such a loving family to take Ricky in while we waited to get him.

Finally, we stopped off at the memorial for the WWII service men that were killed in the Pacific campaign. A beautiful memorial to those that gave their lives for our country and for the people of the Philippines.

We'll take a short nap and then make plans for the evening. Keep sending the comments as we like to hear from everyone back home
Austin,

We are glad your leg is better and you are feeling well. Don't be fooled into thinking you no longer have to take it easy. Hopefully, the bad weather will pass soon. It is 9:30a.m. here and Che should call any time for us to join her downstairs. This will probably be our last posting until this evening, which will be while you are sleeping. Check the blog first thing in the morning for updates. Remind Pawpaw to do your devotional and sleep peacefully. Tell Madison the same.

Love you,
Mom
Mom,

We just had an awesome breakfast and I was able to eat! There are many westerners here, more than I expected. Louisiana is known for its hospitality, but I have never been surrounded by so many friendly people. The hotel has a huge pool and a Gold's Gym so Tanner will be able to maintain his workout schedule. The sun is just coming out and the high today is 85 so we should be able to get some pool time this afternoon.

I just talked to Che' and she will be here around 10:00 to take us to the Parenting Foundation where we will meet Ricky. We plan to take his foster mother and Che to lunch and hopefully Richard will be able to join us, too.

From what we have seen of Manila so far, it is very lush and full of beautiful tropical plants. We are looking forward to seeing more of it today and may even tour some places tomorrow or Friday.

Tanner and I have had a hard time with the currency, unsure of what is a good price, how much to tip etc. We even tipped with American money, but they didn't seem to mind.

In the Japaneese airport, I saw a couple of interesting things. Their garbage cans are one unit but are divided into sections marked paper, plastic, cans, and bottles. I thought it was a really great idea, but sadly wondered if Americans would take the time to separate their garbage. Also, I used the restroom and was surprised to find the toilets on the floor. Thankfully, their was a regular toilet which is what I chose to use. I am really enjoying learning about other cultures and people groups.

Tomorrow should be an easier day for both you and the kids as benchmarks will be over!! How is Oddie doing? Hopefully, he is not having accidents. Remember you can bring him to the house in the mornings. I can't wait to see what Ricky thinks of him as he really likes dogs.

Dad, my hairdryer worked with the adaptor, though with less power. You know what my hair looks like if I can't wash it, so I was very thankful. The water is luke warm and is hard like ours so easy to rinse. I can't believe I am on the other side of the world, I need somebody to pinch me to assure me its real!

Everyone who adopts says that when you finally get to the end of the journey, you forget about all of the ups and downs. I don't know that I will forget because I see how God used each step of the way to prepare us, but it definitely makes it all worth while.

Tanner and I love all of you and are so thankful that you can continue to be a part of our process through this blog.

In His grip,
Steph
Good Morning or Should I say Evening,

I am happy to report that the swelling in my ankles went down so I am able to put on my shoes! For all you ladies I will admit that I forgot to bring a slip. Thankfully, the black skirt I borrowed from Stacie is lined so I'll be okay until I can purchase one. Otherwise, I don't think we forgot anything else. I have been busy putting together care-packages for Che, the social worker here, Chosen Children Foundation, and Lydia, Ricky's foster mother. How do you thank someone for caring for your son for eight months? I really can't and trust that God will bless her for all she has done.

We are about to go down for breakfast and though I'm hungry, I don't know if I will be able to eat. I'm excited and nervous all at the same time. The next time we report we will have Ricky!

Austin and Madison, thanks for the updates and keep them coming. Just pretend we are your My Space friends.

John, just wanted to let you know that the pillows and flight schedule were huge helps!

Stephen, how do you fly so long?

Mrs. Margaret, update me on Coacoa and Mr. Walter's cold. Also, how did your appointment go?

Somebody let me know that Jen arrived home safely when she does!

Mom and Dad, thanks for holding down the fort and keep the messages coming.

Stacie, tell Boo that I am hanging in there and not as tired as I thought I would be, yet.

Full of nervous energy and loving every minute of it,
Stephanie
Stacie - Would you call my cousin, Randy, and give him the blog location. I didn't have his e-mail and forgot to call before I left. Not a big deal if you can't get to it. His cell is 806-0262. Thanks.

Cooshy pillows

Well, for only getting about 5 hours of sleep, I actually feel pretty good. Got to bed about 1:30 and we were both awake by 5:45. Hotel noises....I guess that's a constant across the continents.

Note to self...must have computer access to send blogs. If you were wondering (i.e., Stacie) why we didn't update until so late yesterday it's because we had no computer access. We tried while in the Detroit but we'd had to pay an access fee....didn't see much need just to be able to share that we were sitting in the airport. Regardless, we've got access now although we had to borrow an adaptor from hotel. It literally weighs about 20 lbs. (Big Boy - the adaptor for the hair dryer works though, so we're in good shape). Well, time to shower and get ready for breakfast, so that we can go meet Ricky.

Madison - Glad to hear about your tests. I'm very proud of you.
Austin - How were your tests and how are you feeling? I'm sure you did well and hope that you are feeling well. I'm proud of you too!
Love you both very much! Dad

Touchdown

Wow, what a long day! 30 hours and counting since we got up yesterday (?) morning. Fairly uneventful trip for two Americans who don't have a clue about international travel. A "play-by-play" on our travels is provided below:
- Steph pretty much crashed the first leg (BR to Memphis) because she took a Dramamine. I snoozed on the leg to Detroit.
- Detroit looked like a winter wonderland with all of the snow (at least that's what I thought until I saw Alaska). 3 hour layover there
- Detroit to Japan on a 747 with lots of Asian folk. We sat near a Filipino gentleman (about my age...young guy!) who answered lots of questions for Steph. This leg was really cool as we headed NW over Cananda and Alaska. Really impressive views, with snow-swept crags interspersed with frozen lakes. Just awesome. Then we crossed the Bering Sea (I presume) which at times looked like a giant jigsaw puzzle due to the cracks in the ice. Expected to see a polar bear any minute. Then on to what I presume was China, Russia, etc., where we saw two frozen volcanos. What was really interesting, and which I have not yet figured out, is that we never left daylight. It was like we were chasing the sun! Of course, we had to close the blinds for a significant portion of the trip so folks could sleep, but I just couldn't help peeking every now and then. Then over Japan with it's towering mountains on the north end that gave way to rolling hills then to rice fields (at least that's what they looked like). Off the coast you could see their fish farms in the sea. Finally....we landed after 13 hours and some change.
- A couple of hours in Japan then back on the plane to Manila. Same seats but our Filipino friend moved to an empty seat giving us the whole row. Overall a pleasant but tiring trip. My body has no idea what time it is.
- Deplane and head to the "visitor" line for passport checks. No major delay there, then on to baggage claim which did take a while. However, our taxi was at the airport for us so it was a fairly quick trip to the hotel.
- First impression of Manila......it's dark (presumably because it's nightime :) ). Actually, there were lots of people out on the streets, lots of billboards (similar to Mexico City) and lots of taxis. We arrived at the hotel and were greated by armed guards, because the Filipino President was at the hotel. I commented on how nice it was to be greated by the President, but apparently we weren't the reason he was there. The hotel is very nice although we have two queen beds, speaking of which it is now time to get in them.

Thanks for all of the prayers. We'll be back in touch in the AM (or PM your time).

T

Hi All,

I'll just add a few notes to Tanner's. When we left home for the airport the first thing we heard on the radio was Casting Crown's "Just How Far the East is from the West" (which is the song Casey signed at Ricky's shower) and God's communication to us that He was fulfilling the promise He had placed in our hearts. It was a great way to begin the trip, giving Him the glory!

Our labor pains for Ricky were a little different from those of Austin and Madison. My rear end is actually sore from sitting for 26 hours and my ankles are huge. I thought we would never get here and didn't get very anxious until we were fifteen minutes from landing in Manila. The people we have encountered so far are very friendly and helpful. I found myself mesmerized by the Fillipino men as I tried to envision what Ricky might look like when he grows up. Speaking of Ricky, just a few more hours and we'll be together.

Austin and Madison, Dad and I thought of you guys often and prayed for you. We love you and already miss you. We'll keep everyone posted via this Blog.

Delighting in Him,
Steph